Conflict avoidance comes in many forms.
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Conflict avoidance comes in many forms. Do you recognize these? 1. Some couples avoid so many issues that you feel enormous tension just sitting in
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How to Get the Most from Our Work Together
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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples coaching. They are not sure of what to expect of the coach or
How to Get the Most From Your Couples Therapy
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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples therapy. They are not sure of what to expect of the therapist or
Couples Therapy: Confronting a Stuck, Betrayed Partner
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For this blog, I’d like to address a common challenge in couples therapy: how to confront a betrayed partner who remains in a victim position
Confrontation Video: Challenging Hypocrisy
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With certain presenting problems, it’s obvious that some confrontation will be required. For example, the denial associated with drugs, alcohol or gambling addiction will inevitably
How to Stun Your Therapist (Or Your Spouse) With Your Attitude.
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If you happen to be in couples therapy just say this at your next meeting: Today I’m here to change my attitude about change, because
Regression and its Impact in Couples Therapy
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Regressed partners in couples therapy often demand that either you or their partner focus on them. At times, attending to and even promoting regression can
Attachment and Differentiation in Couples Therapy
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This year’s couples conference has now come and gone. Once again we enjoyed dynamic presentations from state of the art thinkers and practioners, such as
Attachment Theory in Couples Therapy
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For three weeks in November, I served as a faculty member of a wonderful on-line forum on Attachment Theory and Couples Therapy. We had an
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